Anke Van Mullem

Hi, my name is
Anke Van Mullem!

Intimacy Coach

Health Coach


Intimacy Coaching

Under Layla Martin I am currently pursuing my coach certification specifically of the VITA™ Coaching Method for Love, Intimacy, and Relationships. She is the founder of the VITA™ Method, which stands for: “The Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach.” This training exist of 650 hours... And in her own words it's the most advanced and in-depth coaching certification available for love, intimacy, and relationships in the world.

Intimacy Coaching

What do you long for?

Do you long for a legendary love life that is empowering? Intimacy you thought was never possible, read 'mind blowing'? A lasting relationship where passion and romance are central? Do you yearn for general self-development where you heal your trauma's and step into empowerment? Or do you desire more happiness, passion, connection and intimacy in general? Then you have come to the right place.

Anke Van Mullem

Effective tools

Thanks to the VITA™ Method, I am able to guide you with effective tools that lead to a deep transformation. Through these specific techniques, I support you in transforming your body, mind and emotions to release trauma, limiting beliefs and blockages. Think of childhood wounds, broken hearts, certain fears, unconscious patterns, and so on. Through this method, we can restore or update sexual health, erotic desires, self-love, passionate relationships, and so much more.

Exciting subjects

In total, there are 10 sessions that form a whole. The first sessions always consists of mapping your specific desire. After that we can use different techniques like: Transforming limiting belief systems and unconscious objections. Liberating the family dynamic by understanding the family legacy and ancestral issues. Getting what you desire by creating real worthiness and deservingness. And so much more!

Are you ready for a liberating life, and/or lasting relationships that bring growth? Don't wait and contact me with all your questions and desires!

Choose Your Own Intimacy Program

As people are different, styles of coaching should be different as well. That is the why I have created two distinctive coaching designs. Now, you can be challenged by following a specific structure named “Unstoppalicious”.
Read more underneath on how the two programs are different and which could fit you best.

Program One: Sparklicious

This is the process I have used up till now. It takes you to the core of your desire thanks to trusting your body and so your own intuition. Your body already knows on a deeper level what you need so you can heal from old wounding. Through different techniques from the VITA™ Method and my own experience, I lead you through a program where we can unfold the unconscious mind and get you closer to having what you long for most.

This process has more flexibility to take in situations that might be throwing you off of your path right now. It gives more room to work on both your desire and, what I call, acute challenges. There is more time to ventilate and integrate all the different transformations. And most of all, the program is defined by your own pace!

Great for people who have experience with energetic work, and already trust in their inner wisdom. At the other hand, it is wonderful for people who are completely new to inner work and need a bit more time to get into their body and into the different techniques.

Program Two: Unstoppalicious

In this program I use ten different techniques from the VITA™ Method. A deep and insightful process with different approaches to reach your desire. Great for people who have a ‘clear’ goal within the themes of Love, Intimacy, and/or Relationship. It is perfect for who is ready to grow. The ten different approaches are:

Desires, Creating a Clear Goal
Manifesting Your Desire
Liberating The Family Dynamic
Embracing The Inner Child
Creating a Thriving Sexual Ecology
Getting What You Desire
Finding Emotional Empowerment
The Power of Intentional Self-Pleasure
Journey Into the Self
Vibrant And Healthy Relationship

This process is great for people who want to do it all. It has less flexibility, but in return it has a clear program up front so you know what to expect. It guarantees you different techniques to get you to your goal, and clear tasks in between sessions for the ones who want.

How have other people experienced their transformation?


Being coached by Anke was truly a pleasure. She always so naturally created a safe container for me where I had plenty of room to explore my feelings, my circumstances and myself, allowing me to get to the core of my truth. And yet there was always time to laugh and turn to lightness. What I am most grateful for is that she always accepted me for who I am, which I find to be the most healing element in any coaching. This enabled me to reintegrate parts of myself that I used to reject or overlook in myself. I feel my own power and the connection to my deepest self within me again.

Practical info

Where and how?

A session generally lasts between 60 and 90 minutes. These sessions are orginally designed to be followed online via Zoom in the comfort of your own home. Important with online coaching is that you provide a quiet room where you can have the session undisturbed. It is also possible to receive live coaching in Sint-Niklaas, Belgium.


Always by appointment. In general there is the possibility to weekdays in the evening; on Fridays this is also possible throughout the day. On request sessions are available in the weekend.


The price is adjusted to your financial possibilities and I am happy to discuss this with you in an informal meeting. Payment plans are also available. Since I am still in the process of completing my certification, my prices are currently lower. So grab your chance now!
Would you like more information? Please write me a message via Facebook, or the contact form.

Anke Van Mullem

Are you not quite sure yet and would you like more non-binding information? Ask me all your questions and/or share your reservations via the contact form or via On request we can also schedule an online meeting to get a better feel for each other and see how I can help you. Then I can tell you more specifically about the possibilities and make a proposal on how we can work together.